Training Her Husband: Femdom Rules

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Terminology is a big deal. Names and titles evoke power, so it’s important you think carefully about yours. The name you insist that your sub refers to you as will set expectations for the whole scene. If I lived with a sub then I would include more rules (these only really work if you live together, hence why I don’t currently use them) such as: Boot camp is an intensive approach. It works best when there is more than one trainer or the trainer has a lot of time. The idea is to break down the learner, break them of their will, then instill new values in them. It is a form of programming used by the military and law enforcement. This might be the ultimate fantasy for him. All training requires motivation and authority However, you should also remember that your role as a dominant is to care for and help your sub grow as a person. And therefore you probably want some rules for your sub which are designed to encourage that. Your partner still needs to feel secure in his/her everyday life, so there are going to be limits to how far you can take things. 5. Choose Your Preferred Terminology

Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. In management 101, when faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don’t get done. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated. House rules. If you enjoy a BDSM dynamic out of the bedroom then having rules for the house is very fun. These rules can be part sexual (e.g. making your submissive strip for you when she enters the house), part assistive (e.g. making you dinner, giving you a massage), part helpful (e.g. helping you with everyday tasks). It’s up to you as the Dom! When you have advanced a bit in his chastity training, you can begin to require him to kneel before you, either in specific situations or even at all times. Some women do not allow their men to use furniture without permission. Most dominant women prefer to have at least a rule about kneeling when greeting. Kneeling and positions are a more advanced but extremely useful training method.

Some Rules for the Working Submissive

In my opinion though, there is far too much emphasis of the Women having to do everything to ensure the dynamic functions. For example the Women should; organise, create, manage, ensure, lists, structure, rules, oversee etc. etc. Thank you sweetheart, I do so appreciate the time you spend meeting my ridicules, kinky fetishes, and I am sorry for being late for the nice evening you had planned." The ultimate goal. Remember, your ultimate goal is to serve your Mistress wife and to make her life a calm, contented, and ultimately better experience. When I go to the bathroom you should accompany me and wait outside so I know where you are and that you’re safe.

And if you’ve got some submissive rules you love but I haven’t listed (I’m sure you will have because there are infinite possibilities after all so ), leave them in the comments.Control of his dress in your home is very important to controlling your man. A rule of nudity in the home is a simple and effective way to make him feel exposed, powerless and servile. For more information, see the CFNM section and the dress styles section.